Tuesday, October 20, 2015

“My First Time Ever to Meet a Korean Guy”

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Okay guys, this is my First Blog so here it goes!

My First Time Ever to Meet a Korean Guy, which means my first time ever to make friends and meet Korean Guys.

I’ve never really had any friends other than my own race, so it’s a bit strange and yet intriguing for me to meet or make friends with other race.

We started our conversation through an App (sorry guys if I’ll not be mentioning it because of something about the rules of it) but anyway, it’s all about learning and communicating to other people around the world.

We started our conversation by him chatting me first saying, “Hey! Nice to meet you! And blah blah blah…” and asking about what’s my Nationality and where do I live. 

He started asking me if I have any other Messaging Application and I said yes so we immediately exchanged names and information’s about each other.

Right before that week he started asking me what my plans are on my day off. Oh! By the way we are currently living on the same country which I still cannot tell you where (Sorry I just don’t want any issues about it).

He was starting asking about what my plans on my day off and starting asking me out like to have some coffee, tea or have lunch together. I didn’t really like that style when you just met someone specially through Social Application and starting asking you out so obviously I lied and told him that I already had my plans fixed on that week so he said “Okay! Then maybe next time then”. I tell you guys he really is a persuasive guy I must say.

After that week he keeps on messaging me about he’ll be on the City on his day off which is we have the same day off and I told him again that I already had my plans fixed which is kind of starting to make him feel that I really am lying to him :D but that time I wasn’t. I told him “I’m sorry but I already had my schedule fixed because I’ll be on the Beach on that day” and he started saying that “Wow! You’re a busy person” and I find it really funny because he’s starting to feel that I really am lying. Ha ha ha!

Because I wasn’t really into meeting him at all so I started telling him stories that “I already have a boyfriend and everything” and the embarrassing part of his response was “OMG! I’m not asking you to be my Girlfriend, I just want to make friends with you”. Gosh! That was harsh! I wasn’t thinking about that at all! It’s just I was just making an excuse for him to leave me alone. But dang! He’s very serious in meeting me and all.

“ON THE DAY OF OUR DAY OFF” ~~

Earlier on that day I went to Beach with my Cousin with her Family but went home right after we ate our Lunch there. Right before we got home and he messaged me about how was my day and told him that it was good that I’m on my way home. He started asking me to have lunch and I told him I can’t, I felt bad for him. After hours of asking me out I finally said yes.

As I was on my way to the place where he told me to meet him up. It was on a Hotel that has a Pub inside which he told me it was his favorite place to eat when he visits the City.

As I was waiting for him at the Lobby, because he told me to I immediately thought that “I hope everything will go right” then suddenly I heard a voice behind me said “Hello! Are you A?” and I stood up and said “Oh! Hi Y!” Okay now guys! Let’s just call myself as “A” the first letter of my First Name and letter “Y” also for him.

Okay! Let me describe his appearance now, for mostly, probably in Korea he is very good looking guy even in my eyes.

Let me specify it for you:


  • Broad Shoulders (Which is Perfect for his body Structure)
  • Very Tall Guy
  • Fair Skin
  • Handsome / Very Good Looking (I consider him Handsome because He is)
  • Face (Dang! His facial skin is very nice, much nicer than my face)
  • Very Well Dressed (Although he was just wearing color Black Shirt and Shorts which he looks even nicer because of his skin)
  • Eyes (Damn! Single Eyelid is really good to look at in person than on T.V or YouTube)
  • Very Confident (Yes! He really was!)
  • Smile (His Smile is so cute because when he smiles you can barely even see his eyes, which it makes him even Handsome when he does it)
  • Hair (Very clean Cut)

Those are his qualities of his appearance that immediately catches my eyes after seeing him.


Consider his appearance as very perfect when you imagine a guy that you can go out with specially a Korean Guy.

If you’re noticing that I’m not using or calling him “OPPA” like other blogs you’ve read it’s because I don’t call him “Oppa” so just get over it.

So “Y” then asked me to go to the Pub with him because he is starving already and said “Let’s go to the Pub and meet up my friends” which was very good because he was with his friends not just us.

And as we were talking his two other friends came up and introduced us and exchanging Hi and Hello’s. Let’s call them with their First Letter Names “B” and “T”.

“B” is very cute because his hair is sort of long that covers his forehead, those that you see on K-Pop Artist’s hair, that kind of hair. 
“T” is the eldest of them three whom is the nicest one. The very accommodating one.

As we were on our way to the Pub of the Hotel I told them to not talk in Korean because I can’t understand a word of it and they said “Yes sure!”

We were talking and talking and finally at the Pub which was an underground and it was a very nice one.

There were some people there but probably only two tables that were being occupied.

Now we found our perfect table to sit at and I was a bit lost on my mind while talking to them because I was watching T.V right in front of me Ha Ha Ha! That letter “B” was a bit irritated because they thought I was not concentrating at them and in my mind “HELLO! This is my first time going out with a stranger that I barely even know and I’m still shy and adjusting myself”

The cute thing about it was Letter “B” insisting to turn the T.V off and so I said yes. I was not being rude or anything about not concentrating because I really was listening to them but can’t do the eye contact thing because I was still shy to the fact that it was our first meet.

To tell you guys I was not acting cute at all I was just being myself -____-

They were ordering some foods and asked me if I want to eat or something but sadly I was already full because I just ate my lunch so I said just water :D

They asked me if I want to drink beer and I told them “No, thank you” and as to their curiosity they asked me if I have ever drink any beer before and I told them that I used to, and not anymore. But to be honest I don’t want to drink beer on meeting someone for the first time because just to make sure nothing goes wrong or anything.

Now as they were drinking they offered me to play a Korean Game called 3, 6, 9 while I was thinking how to play it they were explaining to me the rules of the game they were playing it for an example. As I was thinking and understanding the concept of the game there’s this voice suddenly I heard saying “YOU’RE PABO!” for you guys who doesn’t know what Pabo (바보) it means “Idiot or Fool”. Do you guys know who said it? Guess who! Yes! It was “Y”.

You have no idea how it pissed me off to the highest level of my nerves and I responded “You’re Pabo! Not me! How the hell am I supposed to know it immediately when I never even played that game ever in my life. So shut the F Up!” and guys he was just laughing and the other two guys were shocked to how I responded.

Well as to you guys I know some of you will just be okay with it, and yes I am a very open minded person but as in my perspective, meeting someone for the first time you should be polite or on your very good manners but he wasn’t. I don’t care how he grew up or what’s his manners are but meeting someone for the first time you should never say that offensive word to someone who you barely even know. And Yes! I was offended by it.

B and T was changing the topic and offered another game which I played and understood the concept of the game. I forgot the name of the game but it was also about numbers again. I lost the game on the second round and they offered me to have a sip of their Beer, and so I did. It tasted so good and got me thinking if only I ordered Beer ^_^ too late to think.

Their order was very late and they were complaining about how starving they were now, and I told Y that go there and ask about what happened to their food and then he said "You should go there". Oh Yes! He demanded me to be the one who’ll complain because I’m a girl and that they’ll listen to me if I’ll complain rather than him, because his excuse was he’s a guy and that no one will listen to him, which he has a point but I didn’t do it. Why should I, right?

He really was very good in pissing me off. Sad to say guys he’s very rude to me. Good thing B and T was there.

They ordered their second round of Beer but their food were still not ready. ^_^ I feel bad for them because you can seriously see on their faces that they really were very hungry.

B suddenly asking me what I was thinking because I became quiet all of a sudden and I said “I just want your food to come so that Y could shut up” the funny thing is that whenever I say those mean stuff about him he just laughs and would say “You’re my style” like, what the heck? I want you to be piss off of me. Sad to say he wasn’t. -____-

In my own understanding we were a bit fair on that game because he’s so good at pissing me off and then me myself quickly responses to him when he says mean/rude words.

For sure some of you will just be walking out if you were treated that way. I was thinking the same thing as well but that would unfair to B and T, cause they were the ones who accompanied me so nicely. I can’t just leave them both that way. But I sure can leave Y behind anytime of the day if we were alone.

My Story is becoming very long now~~~

B was always staring at me as if I have something on my face and I always catches him staring at me and I would keep on asking him “What?” and he’ll just say “Nothing”. Like what?

T is the nicest guy of all of them. In our meeting there I was the Maknae (막내) which means the youngest of us all.

There were this time when Y asked me if I was happy and then I said “Only if I knew that you would be treating me this way I never should’ve been here” and then he laughed and asked “Then if you didn’t came here what would you be doing in your place?” and I replied “Sleeping” then they all laughed. When I was serious at that part like for real.

I seriously can’t say or specify how Rude he was to me but he was seriously was 90% Rude to me, and the other 10% was acting up sweet and cute to me. 
Every time he agrees on something about my answer to their questions he gives me his knuckles and waits for my knuckles which is my reply and then usually added some words of “You’re my Style” with a smile, like what the heck? I don’t need that you are rude as F to me.

LAST PART ~~

As we stood up to leave Y smiled and offered his hand shake and tap my back. He’s crazy as F. B and I were talking as we walked through the Lobby and asked them if they will immediately go home right after it and they said yes because it’s 4 hours’ drive from the City going home to their place.

They offered me to drop me off of my place and I said its okay I can go home by riding a Taxi and they insisted to drop me off by their Car for no more argument I just said yes. B was telling me that “We are not going to harm you we will just drop you off of your place” -___- I know that!

The Car that they were using is from their Company that they also have a Driver with them. Honestly, specifically I don’t know their jobs on their Company but all I know is that the three of them are Engineers with different types of Engineering Degrees.

B was at the front beside the driver, me and Y are on the same seats and at the back is where T was sitting.

Y was very touchy to me as I was leaning on my chair to sit properly he was acting up like putting his shoulders on me and damn I said NO! I don’t know but I still don’t get him in some ways. I don’t get him at all. Then he was touching my hands and I said Don't! and he was smiling at me as if it’ll work.

As I was about to go out B offered his Hands to me for a shake hands as we bid goodbye also to Y and T.

But he chatted me on the same day and Apologized from his Rudeness. He even said that he will make it up to me next time.

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I never really had any regrets of meeting them because I did get to enjoy their company and the way it worked out, although it wasn’t that perfect. I was not hoping or wishing to be treated like a “Princess” to them but my point is that Y should’ve treated me better than what he acted.

I don’t know what will be the next thing about my story to them but if anything will happened I will surely make a continuation on this Chapter.

Annyeong! (안녕)

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